The Fantastic Life

How to Lose a Client


Boy, this was one of the toughest LIFEies I have written.  I HATE to lose.  I HATE losing a client.  I HATE losing a sales pitch.  And yet I have.  Way too many times.  And I have not always followed the advice below when a client decides to leave.  But I am trying and this LIFEies is therapeutic for me.

Here is the best way to handle losing a client (I know it’s not easy):

  1. Say thank you – Stay classy.
  2. Keep your door open –  Let it be known your client is always welcome back.
  3. Ask for permission to check in – See how things are going for them on the 30-day & 90-day mark.
  4. Spend time finding new customers – Reallocate your time to doing something productive for your company.
  5. Debrief your team – Go over what went wrong and what strategies you can change going forward.
  6. Be grateful –  Change your mindset and look at the positives that came out of your business relationship.

Keep growing,

Rule #4 from my book The Fantastic Life: All of Life is Connected
Your first instinct after losing a client may be to shut down your frustration and move on, ignoring the problems that led to the client leaving. But the way you react to this loss will have ripple effects in all areas of your business and life.


6 Steps to Help You Bounce Back When You Lose a Client

When you lose a client, it can leave your business in a state of shock. But that upset can also help you improve your company and bring in new clients.

By: Michael Michalowicz

Feb 24, 2017

It happens to the best of us. A client may leave you for any number of reasons. It could be their cousin just began offering the same services you do. It could be your client isn’t completely satisfied with your services. Or perhaps a competitor offered them an amazing deal to move their business. Whatever the reason, you may lose a client from time to time, and it’s almost never easy.

But how can you make the best of a less-than-ideal situation? Are there steps you can take that make the process of losing a client less painful? Here are my tried-and-tested strategies for handling a departing customer.

1. Say thank you when you lose a client. (And mean it.)
Make sure your customer knows how much you appreciate having been able to serve them. Even though they’re moving on, they supported you, and they deserve your appreciation. 

In addition to being the right thing to do, it’s also the classy way to end the relationship. If you’re unpleasant when you lose a client, you may never have another shot at regaining their business—and it probably won’t help your professional reputation.

2. Keep your door open to their future business. 
Let your client know that they’re always welcome to bring their business back to you, no questions asked. Since nobody can predict the future, you may want to make sure your customers know you’ll happily take them back.

Your commitment to excellence may help you serve your existing customers well and bring you new ones in the future.

Being gracious and grateful lets your client leave without feeling guilty, which means they may be more likely to return to the fold if they’re dissatisfied in the future.

3. Ask for permission to check in with them. 

I recommend making a note to check in at both the 30-day and 90-day mark after you lose a client. Why do I reach out to the client instead of hoping my phone will ring? I’ve found that sometimes customers are embarrassed; even if they really want to come back, they may hesitate.

If there’s an immediate problem with their new service provider, then I might get them back at the 30-day mark. But sometimes it takes a while for them to settle in (or not) and 90 days typically gets them past the transitional phase.

4. Spend your time finding new customers to replace the client you lost. 
One of my favorite strategies is to figure out how much time my team and I spent serving a lost customer and dedicate that time to bringing in three new clients. Turning what could be perceived as a negative into something positive helps keep our focus on the future and all the great work we’ll accomplish.

In some cases, I’ve managed to land new business that is even more profitable than what I’ve lost. Focusing on growing and not just replacing your lost client can help reinvigorate your company. Bonus: You won’t be wasting energy on lamenting your loss.

5. Debrief your team and retool your approach. 
Sometimes we lose a client because we didn’t serve them as well as we should have. I think it’s helpful to figure out where we failed and ensure it doesn’t happen again.

Consider sitting down with your team and taking a good, hard look at what you can improve so you can retain and better serve your existing clientsThen you can develop a clear plan to address your company’s shortcomings. By rethinking your approach, you may be able to come out stronger, better and more profitable.

6. Be grateful for the opportunity to have worked with that client. 

This last step doesn’t have anything to do with regaining the business you’ve lost. It has more to do with your mindset than about your bottom line.

Our customers put their faith, their trust and their dollars in us, and that’s an awesome thing. Being grateful for the opportunity you’ve had—even if it’s ending—can be healthier than resenting a customer who’s leaving. Consider focusing on the positives, and looking forward to having more of them in the future.

Business relationships don’t always last forever. They grow and evolve, just as our personal relationships do. I think the best you can do is to be the best version of your authentic self and strive to deliver excellent service to the customers you have. Your commitment to excellence may help you serve your existing customers well and bring you new ones in the future.


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