The Fantastic Life

2026

Be a Zebra

Why be a zebra? Zebras have an incredible skill: when a zebra escapes a lion, it goes right back to grazing. The alarm turns off. This reaction is remarkable. Navy SEALs are taught the same approach, and it is a skill we can learn. Here’s how: –Create your own off switch. Find a way to […]

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Persuasion

I’ve been a longtime fan and student of Robert Cialdini and his research on persuasion. His work outlines six core psychological principles that help us better understand how to influence and connect with others. Below is a great summary of his book, along with a few insights that have stuck with me over the years:

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Keep Moving

 Science (a 47-year-long Swedish study) now tells me I physically peaked at 35 years old.  Bummer. But the bigger takeaway is not that we slow down — it’s that movement still matters, a lot, at every age. The good news is that exercise is always good news, including: –Exercise always pays off.  You may not perform

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Phases of Growth

Growth isn’t linear—and where you are shapes how you think, work, and lead. I created this to help individuals identify their current phase of growth and understand how mindsets like entitlement, purpose, and empowerment either limit or unlock progress. Please feel free to contact me if you would like access to the full presentation or

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OBC

I created and use what we call Objective Based Communication (OBC).  Instead of sending paragraphs on something, we keep things simple and always in bulleted form.  This results in clear communication. Clarity of communication is paramount in all relationships and negotiations.  Heck in everything I say and do. Please feel free to contact me if you

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Self-Managing Yourself

Self-managing doesn’t happen by accident—it’s built through ownership, capability, and better thinking. This moment of genius outlines a clear path from initial learning to true self-management by developing accountability, continuous improvement, and the ability to ask better questions. Please feel free to contact me if you would like access to the full presentation or additional

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